PB Pair: My Strange Shrinking Parents by Zeno Sworder & The Boy Who Tried to Shrink His Name by Sandhya Parappukkaran

As 2022 came to a close, I had the incredible honor of being asked to write a review for The New York Times. The two picture books I reviewed were My Strange Shrinking Parents, written and illustrated by Zeno Sworder, and The Boy Who Tried to Shrink His Name, written by Sandhya Parappukkaran and illustrated by Michelle Pereira. You can read the NYT review here.

In a comment to my post on social media about the review, one of the authors thanked me for pairing their book with the other author’s. To be honest, it was not my doing–the NYT editor I worked with chose the books and assigned them to me. But the comment stuck with me, and I thought I’d start an occasional blog series about picture books that pair well together, for various reasons, starting with the two I reviewed for the NYT.

Sworder and Parappukkaran’s books are both about shrinking, at least on the surface. Diving deeper, they also share common themes of immigration, belonging, and assimilation.

But the approach each author takes on these themes is very different. Sworder takes the theme of shrinking and applies it literally, creating a world where it’s acceptable to take a person’s height in lieu of money. In the above spread from My Strange Shrinking Parents, the reader sees the protagonist’s parents, who have shrunk to waist-height of the people around them. They don’t necessarily want to shrink (I mean, who does?), but they choose to sacrifice themselves so their son will have what the other kids have. He will belong. I found this illustration particularly heartwrenching–the mother could just as easily be calling for help, and the father is literally on his knees, begging for someone to buy the fruit…or for mercy. Meanwhile, the normal-height folks are going about their dull gray lives, studiously avoiding the parents.

In Parappukkaran’s book, the protagonist, Zimdalamashkermishkada, actually wants to shrink…his name, that is. By reducing his name to Zim, he believes that he will be more like the other kids. He will belong. But he has less luck shrinking than the parents in Sworder’s book. His name springs back to its original size whenever he tries to compress it. In the above spread, Zimdalamashkermishkada looks a little worried and frustrated, but his name is having fun. The illustrations convey a sense of lighthearted mischief–in another spread, his name balloons into an orange pufferfish. And in the end, Zimdalamashkermishkada decides not to sacrifice his full name for the sake of assimilation, instead teaching his new friend how to say it correctly.

Read together, the different tones of these two books–one poignant and the other joyful–gives a fuller picture of the varying emotions immigrants experience. And for us writers, it shows how there are multiple ways to write a story about the same theme. Comparing and contrasting two books with a common theme can help us figure out what voice, tone, and approach resonates most with us and decide how we want to tell our own stories.

Andrea Wang

Andrea Wang is an acclaimed author of children’s books. Her book Watercress was awarded the Caldecott Medal, a Newbery Honor, the Asian/Pacific American Award for Literature, and a Boston Globe-Horn Book Honor. Her other books, The Many Meanings of Meilan, Magic Ramen, and The Nian Monster, have also received awards and starred reviews. Her work explores culture, creative thinking, and identity. Andrea holds an M.S. in Environmental Science and an M.F.A. in Creative Writing for Young People. She lives in Colorado with her family and pandemic pup, Tupelo.


  1. The world needs more picture books, cartoons, films, shorts, and school counselor lessons to move us forward in our thinking. Thank you for highlighting these two books. I look forward to seeing future pairs.

  2. I just suggested both titles to my local library system and look forward to reading them. Thank you for this post!

  3. Debra Kempf Shumaker

    Oooh, both look fascinating. Off to check to see if my library has them!

  4. Thanks, Andrea, for sharing your thoughtful feedback on these important books. I just requested them from my library.

  5. Sharing books to compare and contrast invites children to become critical thinkers at an early age. Thanks for showcasing these books!

  6. These are powerful books that will appeal to kids and adults.

  7. Such interesting books with big impact! Congrats!

  8. I adore pairing titles, and rally appreciate this offering! Great titles!

  9. Such a beautiful write-up, Andrea! Looking forward to reading both of them!

  10. I putting both of these on my “to read” list! Interesting how they compare and contrast!

  11. Andrea, thank you for showcasing these books on shrinking and so much more.

  12. Insightful observations! I look forward to reading these two books and to any future reviews you may write of “paired” picture books. Great idea!

  13. These illustrations are brilliant. Thanks so much, Andrea. It’s no wonder they asked you to review them. Watercress gives me the same feels. ❤️

  14. Thanks for highlighting two great books I am now eager to read, and I really enjoyed this wonderfully thoughtful commentary about both.

  15. I’m relieved to know publishing is making space for books like these. Our daughter is adopted from China, and books with Asian faces didn’t exist once upon a time.

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